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Jun 8th, 2009
In Memoriam: Julia Vega
February 25, 1918 – June 7, 2009
Julia Vega, legendary nanny and
housekeeper for the family of Leonard Bernstein, died on June 7 of
complications from stomach surgery. She was 91 years old. Up to the day of her
surgery, Ms. Vega was the active housekeeper at the apartment jointly owned by
the Bernstein family. Although long entitled to retirement, Ms. Vega chose to
continue her myriad activities, including her sought-after cooking, her sewing
and laundering, her care of birds and her prodigious horticulture.
Raised on a farm in the foothills
of the Chilean Andes, Ms. Vega came to work for the Bernstein family in 1954,
when the eldest Bernstein child, Jamie, was just 2. Alexander was born the
following year, and Nina was born in 1962. Ms. Vega helped raise all three
Bernstein children, filling in both as nanny and housekeeper when the Bernstein
parents were abroad. She acquired excellent English speaking and reading
skills, eventually becoming a U.S. citizen, a proud voter and an avid follower of national
politics.
After the death of Felicia
Montealegre Bernstein in 1978, Ms. Vega became Mr. Bernstein's live-in
housekeeper at his apartment in the famous Dakota building on the Upper West Side.
After Mr. Bernstein died in 1990, the Bernstein children sold the Dakota
apartment and acquired a smaller apartment in the Parc Vendome building on West 56th Street. In this new apartment, Ms. Vega took on the role of
elder-in-chief of the Bernstein family. Alexander Bernstein had his office there,
and various friends and family members dropped by daily. Ms. Vega unfailingly
supplied refreshments for board meetings, music rehearsals and all manner of
activities at the apartment. Her friends traversed all walks of society, from
the building doormen to Peter Jennings. Her coffee was equally strong for one
and all, but only the inner circle was permitted to sample her celebrated
empanadas.
Ms. Vega was renowned for her
discretion. Had she chosen, she could have written the ultimate tell-all about
the myriad luminaries who came through the Bernstein household over the years:
everyone from Mrs. John F. Kennedy and her children, to the actor Richard
Burton and his wife Elizabeth Taylor, to the Bernsteins' Dakota neighbor Rudolf
Nureyev. She was a fierce defender of familial privacy in a world of persistent
public scrutiny.
Ms. Vega transcended the
definitions of family service, becoming a family member herself and ultimately
the beacon of that family. "She was loyal beyond telling," wrote
family friend Mike Nichols of Ms. Vega.
Funeral services will be held on
Thursday morning, June 11, at 10 a.m. at the Church of St.
Francis de Sales
in Manhattan.
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